There comes a point in every woman’s life where she stops shrinking to fit into places she’s outgrown.

That moment for me didn’t come with fireworks or fanfare.
It arrived in the quiet, a soul-deep whisper that said, “No more.”

No more explaining myself.
No more softening the edges that make me me.
No more apologizing for the fire that fuels my purpose.

This is my declaration.
This is my reclaiming.
This is for every woman who’s been called “too much.”

1. My Passion

I love hard. I feel deeply. I will cry with you, celebrate with you, and speak with fire when something lights me up.

As a woman, a leader, a healer, and a mother, my passion is the heartbeat of everything I do.
I’ve been told I’m too emotional, too intense, too much.

There was a time when I tried to temper that—when I thought being passionate meant I had to “calm down.”

Not anymore.

I’ve learned that feeling deeply is a superpower, not a liability.

 My passion is my compass.
It’s not too much. It’s just right.

Passion...

It’s been over two decades. And still—he finds me.

He reaches out. Appears in my dreams. Crosses my mind when I least expect it, like some silent pull that tugs on the deepest part of me.

We’ve never had a traditional relationship. We haven’t seen each other in years. And yet, there’s something between us that refuses to disappear.

He’s a Capricorn. I’m an Aries. That alone is enough fire and earth to build—and burn down—an empire.

From the beginning, there was an energy I couldn’t name. Like I knew him. Like he knew me. Even after years of silence, he always seems to return—through a phone call, a message, or simply a wave of emotion that floods my heart with memories.

And I? I’ve always answered.

The Cosmic Chemistry and the Chaos

There’s something maddening about the way he shows up.

There are days I feel strong. Certain. Grounded in who I am now. And then—his name appears on my phone. And in an instant, it’s like the wind gets knocked out of me.

My heart drops. My stomach ...

It was a Tuesday afternoon during COVID.

I was sitting in yet another virtual executive meeting for the recovery center where I worked. We were reviewing financials, chart audits, and policy updates across multiple locations. The grid of faces on the screen looked just like they had the week before—tired, determined, efficient.

On paper, I had made it. I had the title, the influence, the dream job I had once prayed for. I was working in a field I loved—substance use and mental health recovery—with one of the best bosses I’d ever had.

But on the inside?

I felt hollow.

That day, something cracked. I clicked “Leave Meeting,” walked over to my couch, and collapsed into it. I sobbed. Deep, gut-wrenching tears I hadn’t let myself cry in years.

Because even though I had everything I thought I wanted… I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was settling. I wasn’t betraying myself for a paycheck—I was betraying my purpose by staying small. I wasn’t burnt out from work—I was burnt out from pla...

What happens when we stop fearing the shedding and start embracing our truth?

As I approach another lap around the sun — now officially closer to 50 than 40 — I’ve found myself reflecting not just on the past year, but on the full, messy, beautiful tapestry of my life.

I see all the versions of myself that have shown up along the way. And I can now see that each of them had a purpose — even when that purpose was survival, rebellion, or simply getting through the damn day.

Yes, I know it might sound strange to refer to these former selves as characters, but stay with me. This isn’t The United States of Tara — it’s something much more grounded and real.

The Many Versions of Me

There was the version of me who learned early on that charm and beauty could earn me what I thought I needed: love, attention, acceptance.

The version who dumbed herself down, dimmed her light, played “less than,” just to fit in. People called me naive or stupid because I dared to stay hopeful, positive — bec...

For centuries, we’ve been told that success, leadership, and progress require dominance, competition, and control — all hallmarks of the patriarchal system. But what if we’ve been doing it all wrong?

A radical shift is happening from business to activism, and from spirituality to sustainability. The Divine Feminine is no longer just an abstract concept — it’s a global movement reshaping how we lead, heal, and build community.

You might question my sanity when you look at the world around us. It is being driven (or so it seems), by the epitome of patriarchical beliefs and models. But what if I tell you that the change is not going to happen from the top down but from the bottom up? Maybe you think I am being a bit Pollyannish or naive (wouldn’t be the first time someone has believed or said that about me!). Just hear me out, though.

Here are five modern-day movements that prove the future isn’t just female — it’s feminine. And no, that doesn’t mean weak, passive, or submissive. It me...

Have you ever noticed that the moment you decide to step into your next level — whether it’s launching your dream business, expanding your impact, or finally going all in — life suddenly throws a chaotic, cosmic-level tantrum?

Maybe your 9-to-5, which was fine just last week, suddenly becomes a swirling vortex of stress, urgent emails, and completely avoidable drama.

Or perhaps you finally carve out time to focus on your business, and BAM! Your kid gets sick, your partner suddenly needs your attention, and your best friend has a crisis that only you can solve.

Oh, and let’s not forget about the well-meaning (and deeply triggering) comments from loved ones:

• “Are you sure this is a good idea?”
• “Maybe you should just stick to what’s safe.”
• “What if this doesn’t work?”

It’s like the second you decide to take yourself seriously, the universe turns into that one skeptical aunt at Thanksgiving who side-eyes your life choices.

But here’s the thing: this isn’t a sign to stop. This i...

The way we have been working and living is not working. The focus has been on doing more, achieving more, and constantly striving for success.  Most of us believe that to elevate our lives to the next level, we need to work harder, make bigger plans, or force ourselves to push through obstacles.

What if the REAL secret to taking your life to the next level isn’t about doing more? What if the secret lies in reconnecting with your Divine Feminine Energy—that inner, intuitive, and nurturing force that already knows the way forward?

In this blog, we’ll explore the profound power of Divine Feminine Energy and how tapping into it will help you elevate your life, bring more ease into your journey, and align you with your true Purpose.

What is Divine Feminine Energy?

Divine feminine energy is the essence of intuition, creativity, and flow. It is the part of us that is receptive, nurturing, and deeply connected to our inner wisdom. This energy isn’t about gender—it lives in all of us, regar...

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