The Bigger the Pushback, the Bigger the Mission
Have you ever noticed that the moment you decide to step into your next level — whether it’s launching your dream business, expanding your impact, or finally going all in — life suddenly throws a chaotic, cosmic-level tantrum?
Maybe your 9-to-5, which was fine just last week, suddenly becomes a swirling vortex of stress, urgent emails, and completely avoidable drama.
Or perhaps you finally carve out time to focus on your business, and BAM! Your kid gets sick, your partner suddenly needs your attention, and your best friend has a crisis that only you can solve.
Oh, and let’s not forget about the well-meaning (and deeply triggering) comments from loved ones:
- “Are you sure this is a good idea?”
- “Maybe you should just stick to what’s safe.”
- “What if this doesn’t work?”
It’s like the second you decide to take yourself seriously, the universe turns into that one skeptical aunt at Thanksgiving who side-eyes your life choices.
But here’s the thing: this isn’t a sign to stop. This is proof that you’re onto something big.
Why Resistance Shows Up (And What It Means)
Resistance isn’t a stop sign — it’s a test. A test of your commitment. A test of your belief in yourself. A test to see if you’ll actually follow through on the thing that has been calling to you.
Because stepping into your purpose? It shakes things up. Not just for you, but for everyone around you.
- Your job suddenly feels overwhelming because deep down, you’re outgrowing it. You’re meant for more, and your subconscious knows it.
- Your loved ones push back because your growth forces them to confront their own relationship with risk, change, and purpose.
- Your life throws curveballs because transformation is uncomfortable, and your old patterns will do everything in their power to keep you in the familiar.
You don’t have to let resistance win.
How to Move Through Pushback Like the Trailblazer You Are
#1. Recognize the Pattern & Call It Out
Ever notice how the exact moment you commit to your dreams, life suddenly becomes wild? It’s not a coincidence. It’s a pattern. The more aware you are, the easier it is to navigate.
So, when resistance shows up, instead of panicking, try saying:
“Ah, I see what’s happening here! Cute attempt, Resistance, but I’m moving forward anyway.”
By acknowledging it, you take away its power.
#2. Protect Your Energy Like a Boss
Not everyone will understand your vision — and that’s okay. But what’s not okay is letting their doubts become your doubts.
Be intentional about who gets a say in your journey. Some people will project their fears onto you, not because they don’t support you, but because they wouldn’t take the leap. That’s their story, not yours.
Create boundaries. Limit how much you share with skeptics. Surround yourself with people who see your vision and believe in your ability to bring it to life.
3. Double Down on Your Commitment
Instead of asking “Is this the right time?”, decide that now is the time. The pushback is testing your resolve — prove to yourself that you’re serious by taking one bold step forward every day.
Even when it feels hard.
Even when it feels scary.
Even when it feels impossible.
Resistance backs down when it sees you’re not playing.
The Pushback Means You’re On the Right Path
So, if everything feels like it’s hitting the fan just as you decide to go for your dreams… congratulations.
You’re not off track. You’re not making a mistake. You’re right where you need to be.
Pushback is not the universe saying “Stop.” It’s the universe asking, “How bad do you want this?”
So, take the next step. Keep going. Your future self (the one who’s thriving, leading, and living in full alignment) is cheering you on.
And she’s counting on you to keep moving forward.
Rise with Purpose. Lead with Love.
XOXO,
Leanne